This is not meant to scare you away, but to scare you into making sure you do it right and having someone help you with it. Double and triple checking references across different manuals, and then working up from there. Not all manuals are going to be identical when you are loading for one chambering.
WHY?
Because manual A used a pressure barrel with a universal receiver, Manual B used a rem 700, and Manual C used Remington brass vs Federal Brass. Also, all three are using proprietary bullets. Each bullet design has a slightly different bearing area, swaging Diameter, heel angle, and base area. All react slightly different to pressure. Now, Manual A and C say that 46 grains of reloader 19 give you 2950 fps with their 150 grain bullet for a max load, but Manual B says 45 grains of the same powder gives you 2890 fps with the same weight bullet. Does this mean this is an unsafe combo? No, actually just the opposite is true, Why? because in several combinations, fired from different guns, all result in very similar Data. Therefore, you are not finding a sore thumb sticking out, but a clear warning that although pretty standard, the max load should be approached with a bit more care.
Now, lets say you try this, the bolt opens fine, primers and cases look just fine, but your getting 2960 FPS with 2 less grains than called for in the cookbooks. What do you do.... you STOP. You can shoot a few more at this powder weight and check the loads, but I would not load higher until I get to see what the primers feel like when I kick them out, I might go a half grain higher to see what happens, but I would go no higher until i figured out what was making the jump in pressure and velocity.