Welcome to the club, looks like most of the good advice has been covered so far - a trip to Gunstop to talk with John and pick up some books (another nod for Lymann 49th and Hornady 8th edition) is a great first step.
Respect what you are doing, take your time and you will do fine. I would suggest NOT reloading for other people yet and focus on one of the 3 pistol calibers you own... I started with .45 auto based on the cost of factory ammo, particularly defensive stuff. Get a good scale, the $50 Dillon Eliminator 3-poise 500 grain scale is what John @ Gunstop suggested for me and it's probably my favorite piece of reloading equipment.