"I didn't know that. I thought there was supposed to be lube in all grooves. Thanks"
Okay, this is an absolute, unforgivable screwup. The configuration and depth of the lube grooves and the crimp grooves are TOTALLY different, and it should have occurred to you that these grooves were VERY different, and thus had very different purposes. For whatever reason, you just made a totally unsupported assumption that all the grooves had to be lubed (and you sure as hell didn't get that from the Lyman bullet Manual!!) and off you went into the wilderness pushing the bullet WAAAYY too deep into the size die, which could explain the nose deformation. With my 35 year old Lyman 450, I wouldn't even have the slightest clue how to shove my bullets that much deeper into the die.
Oh, and resting molds on top of the casting furnace won't do diddly squat to bring them up to temperature. They need molten lead to be poured into them to heat up the centers of the dies. For 38 Special bullets, a 95% lead 5% tin mixture (1/20)is adequate, but for anything other than 45 LC that's pretty soft bullet metal, so you need to bone up on the hardness of various alloys, because 1/20 won't cut it for most calibers. Seeing as you do have the Lyman bullet manual, you will read in there that the reccomended alloy is Lyman #2 alloy, which is 90% lead, 5% tin, and 5% antimony. As a matter of fact, I seem to recal that they spec this for just about every mold they make.
Cease and desist bullet casting altogether, buy some jacketed bullets, and learn to reload first!!