by jshuberg on Thu Aug 14, 2014 8:18 pm
What you need to do is to take as much realistic scenario training as possible. Just as important is to visualize various threats, and what your response to that threat should be. Make a point to change what the bad guy looks like when visualizing various threats and encounters so you don't get locked into a particular stereotype badguy your subconscious creates for you.
I've seen a number of stress inoculation classes from time to time, but nothing specifically for choosing the more correct or desired option in the fight/flight/posture/panic response. The more training and scenario visualization you do, the greater the likelihood that if a similar scenario actually occurs, you'll replay your trained response like a movie. The phrase I like to use is to willingly surrender yourself to your training. Don't fight to stay on top of or in control of what's happening, you most likely wont be able to, and fighting to mentally stay in control is what can cause a person to panic in a chaotic and extremely stressful situation.
The more actual training you can do the better, but visualizing various scenarios is just as important. If you need confirmation of this, try the following:
Sign your name with both your strong and weak hands. Your weak hand will be slower and less fluid, and it won't look right. Then close your eyes and imagine yourself signing your name with both your strong and weak hand. What you'll find is that your ability to imagine yourself signing your name is just as slow and just as awkward as it actually is. Each night, close your eyes and imagine yourself signing your name with your weak hand. Don't move your hand when doing this, it's an entirely mental exercise. Imagine it in the greatest detail possible - how the pen feels in your hand, the writing on the side of the pen, etc. The more realistic the visualization, the more effective this "mental training" will be. After a certain period of time your ability to visualize signing your name will become more fluid, less awkward, and just as fast as with your strong hand. When you get to this point actually pick up a pen with your weak hand and sign your name with it. It make take several tries, but very quickly you will be able to sign your name with your weak hand just as easily and naturally as your strong hand. The mind leads the body, and visualizing a training exercise is almost as productive as the physical training alone.
In the case of a defensive scenario, unless you're taking a force-on-force class with simunitions, it's pretty much impossible to realistically train to fight with a pistol. Even in this type of class the number of scenarios you'll be able to train on is limited, so preparing yourself for more than what you've been able to physically train on is entirely a mental exercise. Again, take as much scenario based training as possible, but mental preparation and scenario training, and a willingness to "let go" and allow your training to kick in is just as important. The name signing exercise (besides being pretty cool) can help you with your confidence in trusting yourself that your mental training is effective and can be trusted.
Hope this helps.
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