princewally wrote:joelr wrote:....my guess is that neither she nor her husband would have minded -- and I could have asked them both, since he was taking the class with her. (He owns the place, and her father -- the head bouncer ....
That just strikes me as...odd.
Yup. It did strike me that way, too, but after interacting with the folks over a fair number of hours I came to the conclusion, yet again, that there's all sorts of decent ways to live that aren't my cup of tea. I think that those of us -- and I'm including me -- who don't know a lot of strippers socially probably get our cues about what strippers are really like from popular culture, and those cues can be wrong* . . .
. . . as any gun owner should know, come to think of it. (Applies to a lot of things -- cops really aren't all Joe Friday, the Adam-12 guys, or even Sipowicz; doctors aren't Kildare, or the ER folks, or whatever...)
No question:
some strippers are stereotypical, just as some cops and doctors are.
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* My friend -- and NYTimes bestselling author -- Ray Feist was dating a stripper after his marriage broke up. By his account, which I believe, she was more than vaguely intellectually gifted and remarkably nice -- putting herself through pre-med at a very expensive school, and found that she could do that a lot more easily through a few hours of stripping each week than piling up debt, and that it also had the benefit of cutting down on her workout time, as her act was fairly aerobic.