H&H hit it dead on....
I have been going to gun shows for 40+ years now. I have seldom purchased at the marked price and I know I have seldom sold anything at my asking price. I have been to shows where I couldn't find anything I wanted at a price I was willing to pay and I have been shows where I went home with more than I should have... Don't mean one show had great deals and one didn't becuase there were a lot of people buying at the ones I didn't. I think, at least for me, I go to a show not wanting anything in particular but thinking that if a steal comes along I will get it and if not then the $$ stays in my pocket. If I go home with the money that doesn't mean it was a bad show or the prices were too high, only that I didn't find anything that I wanted to buy.... And I am glad I can't find something at every show I would be flat broke then..
Some things I have learned over the years:
60% of the folks buying will walk away if they don't get a deal (you drop the price some) unless you are way underpriced or they really really want the item.
A person or dealer has the right to ask what they want, the potential buyer has the right to walk away. It is not the sellers job to "educate the buyer".
A lot of dealers have gotten a bit calloused over the years from people making rude remarks when they don't like the price.. As above it is not the buyers job to "educate the seller".
The more shows you attend over the years the more
deals you will find.
When you go to a show looking for one thing that you have to have nobody will have it at any price.
Over time you will buy some things at super low, bargain basement prices that when you get ready to sell them for what you paid for them you will find others think your asking price is way too much.
A deal to you isn't always what the next guy thinks is a deal.
Folks this ain't Target or Walmart. The price on the items at a show, in many but not all cases, is the starting point for negotiations. What I find funny is someone looks at a price, it's more than
THEY think is should be so they insult the person selling the item by making a rude remark and just walk away. Then the next person comes along (in some cases it has been me), looks at the price, makes a serious offer, maybe a little haggling goes on and takes the item home, in many cases for what or less than the first person was willing to pay. Some folks have items priced out of this world and won't budge, Thats their right but folks don't need to be rude about it. Maybe they got into the item for more then they should have, maybe they don't really want to sell it but will part with it if someone is willing to meet their asking price... What difference does it make, if you don't want to pay what they are asking and don't feel making an offer will get the item then just move on cause you are wasting your time and theirs.
In my humble opinion (which I know only matters to me) many folks have just gotten down right rude nowadays. Not sure if its economy, poor manners or poor upbringing. When I didn't want something I was taught to say "no thank you" not Nah or what do I want that for or your price sucks or are you nuts or worse? When someone holds the door for me I was taught to say Thanks You, not just rush on buy without even acknowledging the person holding the door. Or when standing in line at a register and they open a second register letting the person in front of me go to the newly open register instead of hurrying up and butting in front of them. I don't know maybe people just like to be treated like crap and thats why they treat others that way.. I would think there would be a whole lot less stress in the world if folks exercised just a smidgeon more courtesy towards one another... But again thats just me.
Like I said at the beginning, H&H is right and this thread bears that out. The folks that think the prices are "too high" wanna pay $0.10 on the Dollar, the dealer with the high price wants to make $1.50 on the Dollar. The pricing parameters have now been established so lets "TRY" to negotiate a price that makes everyone happy. Isn't that the bottom line.... Sometimes it happens sometimes it don't!
Sorry for the rant but just needed to vent...
DonT