SGT.E.USMC wrote:XDM45,
There are very few basic carry courses that will provide you with what you desire. The majority of them out there will cover an important wide variety of subjects including law, ethics, escalation/proportionality etc.. and the basics of carry and handling. One cannot hope to attain such skills in an 8-hour class that is formulated for the average joe. Ultimately it will come down to you building on some of the skills from your mentors and instructors in your own time. I cant tell you how many times I've ticked off my friends and girlfriends using my SIRT laser trainer on the TV, or irritated them with the sound of me drawing my training pistols, over and over again. It will be you designating that ammo-free are in your home to safely dry fire, it will be you repetitively practicing in that area with your carry gun of choice.
You might consider USPSA and IDPA leagues as the stresses of those drills can simulate what you might feel engaging a bad guy, and it will help reveal your failure points. If you tell your brain its real, to some extent it becomes real. Train how you fight, and every draw from your holster is another chance at building good muscle memory, so do it how you would exactly the same every time. Know your short-comings and always keep an open mind when receiving new instruction. I am lucky because uncle sam and all of you pay for me to hone and maintain my skillsets. Most dont have that luxury. Either way, it looks like you have the proper attitude and mindset to begin your training and I hope you achieve your goals.
EAJuggalo,
I am sorry to hear that there is bad blood between you and Mr. Shade and I hope that someday you can bury the hatchet. After receiving several great courses from him while at home on leave, his family has treated me very well and they are now all friends of mine. His advanced courses are great and incorporated alot of militarisms in it which was easy for me to understand. His son Jason is a really talented gunsmith and I retain his services whenever I have complex work or when the CA-MN gap will permit it. That says alot because I am very, VERY particular and demand perfection in every aspect of my life. Its hard to find good service these days!
-E
Sgt, Thank you first and foremost for your service to our country. It is appreciated and respected.
Secondly, thank you for the advice. I realize that it's going to be 90% me and 10% training in developing and maintaining my knowledge and skill sets; but I am 100% held accountable and responsible at all times by myself. Mistakes and negligence simply cannot be made when a weapon is involved. I believe that zero-tolerance is mandatory at all times, and that it's constantly training yourself mentally, physically, with your weapon, doing everything you can to prepare.
I know that I could train from birth until my death and never feel that I am prepared enough, good enough, or "ready" because you can always do better, learn more things, fine tune, etc. Maybe I'm being a perfectionist and unrealistic, overly hard on myself, but it must be done right 100% of the time. I just want to start out right with a good foundation. How will I do that and how long will that take? I don't know, so I'm open to the advice from people who know more than I do and I can learn from.
I think part of the key is to pick your sources. Listen to everyone, but take advice from those who can walk it, not just talk it. I think there are many people here who are very well-educated in weapons, safety, and definitely walk-the-walk so this is a good forum for me to learn from. Like you, I'm also picky, so I may have to have his son replace my sights on my pistol when I go to have that done eventually.