My .002 worth.......
jgalt wrote:My money is more important to me and my family than is your - or anyone else's - family, yes.
@smokintoneI think what jgalt here is saying here is not that money matters more than people; but rather that his his money doesn't matter more to anyone than it does to himself and his family. Nothing wrong with that. What makes more difference to each of us? The $100 in your pocket or the $100 in mine? Of course what matters to us most is the $100 in our own pocket versus the $100 in the next guy's pocket. Same thing is true of any "thing" we have.
What is selfish and greedy is when we think the other guy's $100 is also ours and that we should be able to tell him how to spend it, or we try and take it or other things from him for our own purposes.
Money doesn't matter more than people, and if someone thinks it does, they are confused in my opinion.
@everyone (for the rest of my post)jgalt wrote:Taking care of yourself first, so that you then have the ability to help others, is not "selfish" - it's rational.
Exactly.
jgalt wrote:I didn't once say that I have a problem giving to help others.
Same here. I do give as well.
jgalt wrote:The objection is to the forced "giving" of an unlimited amount, to attempt to achieve an unachievable goal, that your original statement implied.
Sounds like taxes and government spending

smokintone wrote:I'm not thinking in terms of just myself. You need to go beyond yourself sometimes for the greater good of everybody.
jgalt wrote:What the heck do you think charity is...???
Well, charities are supposed to help, but when I had cancer, no one gave me money or helped with my living expenses. Charities also have overhead and some of them much more so than others, which means most of your money goes to them, not the cause, not the people you're trying to help. So if someone chooses to give cash, do the research ahead of time.
My personal policy is that I'll donate clothes to charities, items, things, but not cash.