by XDM45 on Sat Sep 01, 2012 11:48 am
There's some increased crime in my area, gang violence, and a women's prison (with the prison being almost a complete non-issue)......so a few months ago in Feb 2012, I bought my first 2 guns after my wife told me she was scared and wanted protection since there were home invasions by drug-addicted criminals while the homeowners were occupying the house.
So I purchased to guns..... one primarily for practices, the other for self-defense. (Yes, I do practice with both, but the 22 is cheaper to shoot than the 45 is. New ammo is expensive and I don't reload.)
Since I haven't shot in 25 years, and even then, it was rarely shooting since I never owned a gun until recently.... I waited until April when my basic pistol class was available from the place I wanted to get it at. After the class, I started shooting pretty heavily (for me at least) going through 3,500 rounds through the 45 and 3500 through the 22 from April until August 2012 for the purpose of general practice in safety, shooting, handling my guns, and also preparing for my PTC (which I recently passed and am now waiting the 30 days for the card. I won't have any problem getting it.)
So there's the background of the past few months, tons of time and money spent (I figure I've spent $3,500-$4,000 for everything from club membership, range fees, gas, ammo, guns, cleaning supplies, all of it. Not a huge sum of money, but not an amount to just waste either.)
Now that you understand the background of everything thus far, it's come to pass that my wife thought that you can just buy a gun and stick it in a drawer and that's it. After seeing all the time and expense, she hates guns and has zero interest in them because it takes money (we're both frugal, but her even more than I am), but more importantly, it takes time away from her. I've offered to take her to the range, but she doesn't want to go. Thinks it will be loud (uhhhh yeah? Ya think??) and won't enjoy it. She;s also disabled and has some pretty major health issues which I won't get into, but going to some long class is pretty much out for her.
I'm still going to the range, just not as much since I still need to practice, but now I can change my focus from one aspect of practice to another now that I'm well-adjusted to my guns, guns in general, and obtained my PTC. Now it's time to fine tune things, practice holster training, learn defensive tactics via reading, practice, and a class or few down the road a bit once she settles down.
All said and done above, I wish I could go shooting every week, but I will have to knock it back to once every 3-4 maybe even 6 weeks unless I want to hear her complain about it. It's more the time away from her than the money, but I think the money too...but not as much as the time is a issue in my being away from her is. As for dry-fire practice, I'll probably have to do that when she sleeping. I don't think I need to practice 24/7 and have guns be all-consuming in my life, but I do think that I need to really stay ramped up for awhile and then taper off. (Some of which I am doing and planned to do anyway as I mentioned about my practice in general shifting)
I'm just not sure how we can agree to disagree on this one.
If I were single, I'd buy a nice AR-15 and have at least 10,000 rounds for each gun I own, but she thinks 1,000 rounds is "preparing for a war"; but yeah, me having as much ammo as I want and a rifle, that's not going to go over at all. I' not a gun nut, don't need to be a collector of them, etc.... I just want to be able to practice, have my two pistols, more than enough ammo, and carry -- all for the purpose of defending myself and my family by stopping the threat if that threat is against my or my family's lives.
Is that so wrong? Am I out of line> What do you suggest?
Gnothi Seauton