When I go to FTF transactions,
- I ask a friend to come along in a second car if the value of my firearm is a large amount (this varies on how safe I feel)
- I leave a timed email to be sent out to my family
- I leave a note
- I leave a voice message on my answering machine
I was going to recommend people to edit their original post to note where they are meeting, but this opens up other security issues as anyone can see that post....
A week ago, I had to go into someone's apartment in a shady neighborhood to complete a sale as he said he was unable to leave the apartment and I really wanted the firearm. I took the precautions above and left my phone on with my wife on the other line during the purchase.
If you don't have someone else that you can open up to when it comes to firearms (I know people who got divorced because their spouse was anti-gun) please do not hesitate to leave me a PM saying where you are going to meet and some details....once you safely return, send me another PM saying everything went well.
How can you trust me? I don't know how to prove this to you, but I try to do what I can do to reduce gun related violence. If you can't trust me, then find someone else on the board that has been around long enough.
But please do what you can to stay safe. I know these FTF sales go fairly well most of the time, but I don't want something going terribly wrong which results in someone getting hurt; some idiot politician or soccer mom voicing their concern and bringing on negative media hype.