bensdad wrote:My dad passed away on Feb. 13th. The only fun moment I've had in dealing with his property/financials/paperwork/trust/etc. was calling the strib and cancelling his newspaper subscription. I got to cash a check FROM THEM.

I'm sorry for your loss. Been there, done that.
I lost my mother in August 2006 and my dad in April 2012. I don't know if this is your first or second parent passing, but when you lose one, it doesn't really prepare you for losing the second one because once both are gone, you're really at the top of the familial ladder. There's no one above my sisters and I. We each head up our own families, and we are all part of our family without any patriarch or matriarch above us; but that's the way nature intended it to be....children outlive the parents.
I was fortunate enough that may parents were well-prepared and planned for years to take care of all of the things needed after their passing one day; so that and the fact they both went from Cancer and had some time left after each own's terminal diagnosis was also a blessing. It wasn't like they were taken suddenly, which would provide its' own unique set of feelings I'm sure. I've lost friends and co-workers suddenly, but never family.
Anyway, this post isn't about me...it's about you and your loss. I just didn't want to be one of those people that says "I understand" when clearly I don't have a clue...well, as I said, been there, done that, do understand and I can relate. Hopefully you have people you can converse with and bend their ear, but if not, feel free to talk to me. Some people end up alone in this World and that's not a good thing for anyone. They end up doing crazy things like having a household with cats, guns, and shaking their cane at the kids on the lawn, you know, my typical Saturday night.......wait......I'm not alone, so what's my excuse?
