John Farnam wrote:1 Oct 10
This sage advice to women, from a female LEO and instructor, with many years of practical experience:
"Purses/handbags are issues unto themselves!
I am a woman, and I do not carry a purse. I did as a young girl, but even shoulder-bags were a hassle. I always carry a wallet. My keys and cell phone are carried the way most men carry them, on my person. My gun, in the 'appendix position,' is also carried on my person.
When in school, I carried a backpack like everyone else, but essential items stayed where they always have been, on my person.
I worked in our courthouse at one time, and had to search handbags prior to their entering the courtroom. I was astonished at the list of items most women routinely carry in purses! Purses have become a 'black hole' for things rarely needed, but that women think might come in handy some day.
As our department's training officer, I daily observe female officers who deposit purses in lockers while on duty. I always ask them how 'critical' purses can possibly be when they are thus inaccessible through the entire duration of a twelve-hour shift.
Most answer that it is a 'clothing issue.' Off-duty they want to appear ' stylish' and thus wear skin-tight pants and tops, with just enough room to accommodate a fanny two sizes smaller, an arrangement which obviously does not lend itself to the concealed carrying of essential items!
It is a case of priorities. You're 'one of us,' or you're not. Concealment is an attitude! For one, I will not wear clothing with no room for wallet, pistol, keys, blade, and cell phone.
In the interest of personal safety, it is time for women, at least LEOs, to free themselves from the purse-carrying habit!"
Comment: There are few subjects upon which I would rather comment less than women's fashion!
It is, of course, impossible to completely, even adequately, accommodate all priorities when presenting oneself in public. We live in many parallel universes, and I fully realize that not everyone is as boring, nor "plain-vanilla," as I am!
With that said, when the Test comes, we'll likely be on our own, with no opportunity to "get ready." Under those circumstances, "stylishness" will appear insignificant, dare I say, even facetious!
/John