Yeah, I know that there's not a big issue here. One less for starvation or road kill. It still sucks that it was wasted.
When I shot my doe, there were 5 deer in the same tight group on a clover patch. I took the first clean shot I had on the big momma because I was rapidly approaching unsafe shooting conditions (as evidenced by being blinded from muzzle flash). The mistake was not going for center mass and also not ensuring the exit path wouldn't injure another deer.
Although, had it been a clean intentional kill, I'd be bragging it up like I planned it.

We had a tag for it (that went unfilled), but I didn't know it was hit, so I never looked for blood. Momma dropped instantly, and a couple of them scattered right away, and the others lingered for a second and then took off. I couldn't hear a thing - which is another reason to get electric muffs (I have them now). The fawn only made it about 80 yards, so it didn't suffer too much.
The whole point of this thread is that I'm responsible for that bullet till it stops moving, and I failed this time. Hopefully this might make someone else not have the same happen to them.