Well, there is the question why you're thanking somebody for a "recipe" if you have a reloading manual yourself and could just look up the data, but 95 grain 9mm bullets are a little odd in weight, and besides I don't feel like having a cow right now. Shippy left two full bottles of Night Train here when he passed out last night!! Yay!! Hic!! Lyman Pistol reloading manual, 3rd edition, lists 5.1 grains of 231 as the MAX for 95 grain bullets, while Hornady #9 lists 5.6 max for 90 grain bullets and 5.3 max for 100 grain bullets with 231. So one manual says it's max and one doesn't. It's your life, you can make up your own mind. As far as seating depth/OAL measurement, the general rule of thumb is that bullets with a round nose have longer OAL's than bullets with a hollow or flat point, and the reason is that if you hold one bullet up against the other and try to match the outlines of the noses, the bullet with the round nose will stick up farther than the flat nose if you try and match the curve of the nose. So you do NOT want to seat a HP out as far as an RN, because you are making a round where the round will have a larger diameter closer to the front, and may cause a feeding problem in the gun.
The other complicating factor is that the bullets you bought have a concave base in them, which means that relative to a flat based bullet, you can seat the concave base bullet sligtly deeper to get the save effective volume in the case.
So to sum up, I got no freaking idea with these very different bullet types and different load data where you're going to be with the bullets you just bought. The best you can do without a chrono is take a very close look at the primer flatness of the loads you previously shot, along with any factory ammo you shot, and see what they all look like. If they look like this, you're one step away from blowing your head off.

That. along with perceived recoil, and how far back the ejected cases go are the other things you should be paying attention to. And if you don't have a FM, then buy a FM, and RTFM!!!