Jackjone wrote:I recently have just moved into my first apartment and looking to purchase an affordable home defense weapon. I'm only 20 so i can't purchase a handgun yet. Been thinking a shotgun or an AR (I'm in the military and I'm more use to the feel of an M4 than any other weapon) Plus please consider that I want my wife to be able to use it just in case, so no big guns that she may be afraid to shootr. Plus if mentioning a shotgun, please recommend me type/brand of ammunition. Please remember that I live in an apartment.
Since your wife will not be shooting it much, only "just in case" and for occasional training, I would go with a pump in 12 ga.
The 12 ga gives you, Jackjone, far more options and easily available ammo choices.
Do a check on Midway USA for shotgun ammo to compare what is available for both 12 and 20 ga.
Quick MidwayUSA examples:
Target loads
20 ga = 88
12 ga = 160
Slug loads
20 ga = 27
12 ga = 64
Predator loads
20 ga = zero
12 ga = 9
waterfowl loads
20 ga = 25
12 ga = 86
( I'm not including the 12 ga 3 1/2 in load options )
Now, for your wife's training experience, lighter loads of 7/8 oz 12 ga low recoil are available.
http://www.midwayusa.com/product/290019 ... 2900175823and even these...note warning that they will not function reliably in all pumps......
http://www.midwayusa.com/product/255579 ... -box-of-20Later, if you decide to get into reloading, (a used MEC 600 jr and basic supplies for about $150) you can make her custom light loads she will have fun shooting.