I am somewhat at a loss. I'm trying to find a gun that would work for my mom and so far coming up dry. She has a lot of fun with a small .22, but that is obviously not a defensive gun.
She doesn't want a revolver, so we're looking at autoloaders. She wants it fairly light with not too much recoil, being fairly new to handguns. P32/P3AT Keltecs are out - too small and uncomfortable for several reasons. Tried a SIG P230, which is the right size and caliber, but the trigger on it was too far for her to reach, so instead of holding the gun straight she rotated it a bit in her hand and whacked her thumb metacarpophalangeal joint with the backstrap. That's unpleasant, and takes the P230 out of the running. I think a 1911 with a short trigger might work, but she is a bit nervous about a big caliber and worried about the weight.
This is kinda like Goldilocks - this one is too big, and that one is too small. So, what is out there that is not terribly exotic, reasonable caliber, about the size of a P230, but with a shorter trigger reach?